Sleep affects your mental and physical health. Getting good sleep helps boost your mind and mood and can help prevent health problems. Women are more likely than men to have insomnia and other sleep problems.1 Changing hormones during the menstrual cycle, pregnancy, and menopause can affect how well a woman sleeps. But there are steps you can take to get the rest you need.
How Does Sleep Affect My Mental Health?
Your mind and body are healthier when you sleep well. Your body needs time every day to rest and heal. Some sleep disorders, such as insomnia, sleep apnea, and restless leg syndrome, make it harder to fall asleep or stay asleep. This can lead to daytime sleepiness and make it more difficult to stay in good mental health.
Having a sleep problem can also trigger a mental health condition or make current mental health conditions worse. Also, mental health conditions or treatments can sometimes cause sleep problems.
How Much Sleep Do Women Need Each Night?
Most adults need between 7 and 9 hours of sleep a night to feel refreshed, although women who are pregnant may need more and older adults may average less.
What Sleep Problems Affect Women?
Sleep problems that affect women more or differently from men include:
- Insomnia. More than 1 in 4 women in the United States experience insomnia, or the inability to fall asleep or stay asleep. Insomnia is also more common in people with depression and anxiety, which also affect more women than men.
- Restless leg syndrome. More women than men experience restless leg syndrome. It can happen to women of all ages, but it happens most often during pregnancy. Also, some medicines used to treat depression can cause restless leg syndrome. Depression is more likely to affect women compared to men.
- Sleep apnea. Sleep apnea may be underdiagnosed in women. Snoring is one of the main signs of sleep apnea. Women with sleep apnea may be underdiagnosed, because they usually report more general symptoms, such as insomnia, anxiety, and nightmares.
Why Do Women Have More Sleep Problems?
Women may be more likely to have sleep problems because women experience hormonal changes during certain times and events that are unique to women. These include:
- Premenstrual syndrome (PMS) and premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD). Women with PMS commonly report trouble sleeping. Nearly 7 in 10 women with PMDD say they have problems going to sleep and staying asleep in the days leading up to their period.
- Pregnancy, especially in the third trimester, when women may wake up more often than usual because of discomfort, leg cramps, or needing to use the bathroom.
- Perimenopause, when hot flashes and night sweats often can disturb sleep. Also, about half of women report problems sleeping after menopause.
How Do I Know if I Have a Sleep Disorder?
Talk to your doctor if:
- You often have difficulty sleeping and the sleeping tips are not working for you
- You awaken during the night gasping for breath
- Your partner says that your breathing stops when you are sleeping
- Your partner says that your legs move rapidly during sleep
- You snore loudly
- You have to get up more than twice during the night to urinate
- You wake up feeling like you haven’t slept or are exhausted
- You fall asleep often during the day
How are Sleep Disorders Diagnosed?
To determine whether your sleep problems are caused by a sleep disorder or another mental or physical health problem, your doctor will ask you questions about your medical and sleep history. Sometimes it can take several visits to a doctor to figure out the cause of your sleep problems.
Your doctor or nurse may:
- Ask about any new or ongoing health problems or stress.
- Ask about your sleep habits. Consider keeping a sleep diary for 1 or 2 weeks before you see your doctor. Write down when you go to sleep, wake up, and take naps.11 Keep track of how long you sleep each night and you how feel throughout the day. Some free apps for your mobile phone may also help you track sleep.
- Do a physical exam. This can help your doctor rule out other medical problems that might cause sleep problems. You might need blood tests to check for thyroid problems or other health problems.
- Recommend a sleep study. If your doctor thinks a sleep disorder is causing your sleep problems, you may be asked to do a sleep study. Sleep studies may record brain activity, eye movements, heart rate, and breathing patterns while you stay overnight at a sleep center. A study can also record how much oxygen is in your blood and how much air moves through your nose while you breathe, as well as your snoring and other measurements.
Can I Take an Over-the-Counter (OTC) Medicine to Help Me Sleep?
Yes, but talk to your doctor or nurse about your sleep problems before using an OTC product. Your sleep problem may be a symptom of a different medical problem that needs to be treated. Also, OTC products are not meant for regular or long-term use. If you decide to use a sleep medicine, doctors recommend that you:
- Read the medicine label and directions first.
- Use the medicine at the time of day directed by your doctor or nurse.
- Do not drive or do activities that require you to be alert.
- Always take only the amount your doctor or nurse tells you to take.
- Tell your doctor or nurse about other medicines you use.
- Call your doctor or nurse right away if you have any problems while using the medicine.
- Do not drink alcohol or use drugs.
- Talk to your doctor or nurse if you want to stop using the sleep medicine. Some medicines must be stopped gradually.
What Can I Try at Home to Help Me Sleep Better?
Try these tips to help improve your sleep:
- Try to go to sleep when you feel sleepy and then get up at the same time each morning.
- Do not take naps after 3 p.m. if you normally sleep at night.
- Do not drink caffeinated or alcoholic drinks or smoke late in the day or at night.
- Exercise on most days. Exercise or physical activity done too close to bedtime can make it harder to fall asleep. Experts recommend exercising at least 5 or 6 hours before your bedtime, especially if you have insomnia.
- Do not eat or drink a lot within about 3 hours of bedtime.
- Keep your bedroom dark, quiet, and cool. If light is a problem, try a sleeping mask. If noise is a problem, try earplugs, a fan, or a “white noise” machine to cover up the sounds.
- Follow a routine to help relax and wind down before sleep, such as reading a book, listening to music, or taking a bath.
- If you cannot sleep within 20 minutes of going to bed or don’t feel drowsy, get out of bed. Read or do a quiet activity until you feel sleepy. Then try going back to bed.
- Do not do anything in your bed that could make you more awake. Using a mobile phone, watching TV, or eating in bed can make it harder for you to fall asleep in bed.
- Do not look at lighted screens like a laptop or smartphone before bed.
- See your doctor or a sleep specialist if you think that you have a sleep problem.